If it were my car, I would opt for the complete Performance package which would add PTV+ and PDCC to what you've already selected and then substitute ACC alone for Innodrive which would result in an overall increase of only about $1500 to your MSRP.
I also think full leather is a very worthwhile option and adds a lot to the car, but I recognize that it's pricey.
But honestly, that's all just personal bias on my part and I think it's a solid spec. ?